Bringing home a puppy is excitingâand a little overwhelming.
Thereâs the cuteness, the cuddles, the chaos⊠and then the questions start:
Why is my puppy biting everything? Why wonât they settle? Should I let them roam? Why do they have zoomies at 9 PM?
The truth is, your puppy isnât being âbad.â Theyâre just brand new to the worldâand looking to you for guidance.
Victoria teaches a holistic, structure-based approach to raising puppies that sets the tone for a calm, confident, well-behaved dog. Letâs walk through some of her top tips for navigating those early days the right way.
đïž 1. Start With Structure, Not Freedom
One of the biggest mistakes new puppy parents make?
Giving too much freedom too soon.
Letting your puppy wander the house might seem lovingâbut it often leads to:
- Potty accidents
- Chewing on furniture or wires
- Overstimulation
- Lack of boundaries
Victoria recommends keeping your pup on leash indoors or using crate and playpen time until theyâve earned more freedom through calm, respectful behavior.
Structure builds safety. Safety builds trust.
đ€ 2. Prioritize Crate Training From Day One
Crate training isnât punishmentâitâs peace.
Done correctly, the crate becomes your puppyâs personal sanctuary where they can:
- Rest without overstimulation
- Learn to self-soothe
- Stay safe when unsupervised
- Begin practicing calm independence
Crate training also supports potty training, reduces destructive behavior, and helps with separation anxiety down the road.
Victoriaâs tip? Start crate time during the day, not just at nightâand always lead with calm, not emotion.
đ§ 3. Teach Calm as a Daily Skill
Puppies donât just âgrow outâ of chaosâthey have to be taught calm.
Victoriaâs calm puppy formula includes:
- âš Place training to teach stillness on command
- đŸ Structured walks to drain mental energy
- đź Structured play (like fetch and tug with rules)
- đïž Crate or nap time to promote nervous system recovery
Every time your puppy practices calmâeven for 30 secondsâtheyâre building emotional regulation that lasts a lifetime.
đ© 4. Donât Panic Over Diarrhea or Setbacks
Itâs normal for new puppies to have:
- Loose stools during transitions
- Whiny crate sessions
- Regressions in potty training
- Big emotions over small changes
Stay calm. Stick to your routine. Support the gut (hydration + bland food if needed), and donât change everything at once. Puppies need consistency more than variety.
đœïž 5. Feed for Behavior, Not Just Growth
Kibble alone often doesnât cut it for growing pups.
Victoria recommends adding 10â20% fresh food to support digestion, brain development, and behaviorâincluding:
- đ„© Cooked or raw meat
- đ„ Raw eggs
- đČ Bone broth
- đ„Š Steamed veggies
- đ Raw goat milk or kefir
Better food = better focus, fewer outbursts, and a healthier immune system.
đŹ 6. Set the Tone With Your Energy
Your puppy feeds off you.
If youâre frustrated, rushed, or over-excited, your pup will mirror that energy.
Instead:
- Move slow
- Speak softly
- Guide with clarity
- Reward calmânot chaos
Victoria always reminds us:
âLeadership isnât loudâitâs consistent, calm, and clear.â
đ Want Help Navigating Puppyhood with Confidence?
Inside the FTH Online Pack, youâll get everything you need to raise a calm, well-adjusted pup:
- đ eBooks on puppy behavior, crate training, nutrition, and more
- đ„ Step-by-step video lessons
- đŹ Weekly live Q&A sessions with Victoria
- đŸ A private community of new puppy parents
- â All for just $10 for your first month
đ Click here to join and raise your puppy the calm, confident way.
Bringing home a puppy can feel like chaosâbut with structure, calm, and clear leadership,
youâll build a bond that lasts a lifetime. đŸ

